A good spiritual man and father…

A Good Spiritual Man

For all of the fathers out there in the world, I have had a lot come to me who have wanted to know, what they could do to improve their fatherly skills. This also goes hand-in-hand with being a good spiritual partner, on the male side of duality. What makes a man a good man and father? Let’s have a look!

Deuteronomy 6:6-9 says- “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.  Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.  and then… Titus 2:7 adds… “Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity”. That means that a man who has dignity, and who consistently follows the word of heaven, is one who is a good man in the eyes of God. It says also at 1 Timothy 6:11- “But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness”. This adds, that any man who detests the wrong things in life, and tries to “write on the tablet of his heart” the virtues and advice of the heavens, is a good man. Being a good man, leads to being good in all aspects of manhood, like marriage, and fatherhood too. In order to walk in God’s way, one has to leave the ego, and let heaven guide them instead. Having a fear of god, is a way to motivate oneself to do that. It is not the kind of fear that you may think though, and it is always rewarded.

Psalm 112:1- Praise the Lord! Blessed is the man who fears the Lord, who greatly delights in his commandments! His offspring will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed. Wealth and riches are in his house, and his righteousness endures forever. Light dawns in the darkness for the upright; he is gracious, merciful, and righteous. It is well with the man who deals generously and lends; who conducts his affairs with justice. …

As I have said I the past, one who wants enlightenment, will detach from the ego, and surrender to the path of higher self. Higher self is divine. Therefore, they follow the divine order of things.  The divine order of things include the Holy Virtues. What are the virtues? Humility, Kindness, Moderation/Abstinence, Chastity, Patience, and Charity. There are others according to what I know, in the angelic world, which should be provided here on Earth. But mankind has a hard time following even those seven known virtues, as it is. A man who who is full of humility has no ego. He is a loving kind man, who sets himself to the side for others, always. There would never be a thought of himself in his mind. It would always be more important in how someone else felt, their needs, and what was going on with them at the time. For an example:

Most men, sit at home Sunday for sports. One is sitting at home on Sunday watching football receives a call that their cousin’s car broke down 40 miles away, and they need someone to come get them. Most would tell their cousin, that they had plans and that it was too far. Perhaps, they did not have enough gas, or some other excuse would come up, about how they could not help… Some would not even answer the call. A virtuous man would forget about football and use his last $20, to rescue his cousin. Some would ask, “What am I supposed to do if I use my last $20 to help him? How will I get through the week”? Many people worry about themselves first. That’s the point. A virtuous man would not worry about them self. And because of that, heavens reward will always be that, they get help when they need it in return. Sometimes a virtuous man’s faith will be tested.

For an example, my own father who is a great example to me of a virtuous man, always puts himself last to help others. One instance was , when I had my laptop quit on me, I was stuck and couldn’t work for a day or two. I was having some financial difficulties. My father, knowing how hectic my job is, and that I could not afford to take any more time off… went out and spent $400 of his money to get me a new one. In return, he was given a small test of faith. After he had spent the money to help me, our air-conditioner also broke down, which required the same amount of money that he had just used to help me, to be needed to replace the airconditioning. He wondered how he was going to fix it, it being that he spent the same amount helping me. Anybody else would have complained they should not of helped and that they should have held onto their money. Some would have said, that they get repaid bad for good. But my father, he held steadfast in his faith. And sure enough, the heavens provided an outlet for him to find the money that he needed, to fix the air conditioner. However, if he had not been faithful, he would not have received help in return. Also, more than likely if he hadn’t helped me, not only would the air-conditioner had broken down, but there would’ve been another problem somewhere else along the line, to teach him that sometimes you have to help other people instead. It would’ve created a domino effect of bad luck, because “what you put out into the universe is what you get back”. And if you’re not putting anything out there, then you’re not going to get anything back when you need it.

Humility and charity both kind of go hand-in-hand. Greed is one of the deadly sins, and it makes people want to hang onto their material goods or finances. And it turns out, that they hang onto those things so much so, that they lack helping other people. They worry about how they are going to get by, But the heavens to say, “do not worry about those things, for our God in heaven will take care of you”.-Matthew 6:25

When it comes to moderation and absence, this goes along with drugs, alcohol and sex. It could also include recreational activities or sports that a person loves. If a person excessively engages in those things, then they will have an unbalanced lifestyle. You cannot put more time into one thing, then another. The other things in your life will start to target and pull at your energy, all in need of your time and your attention. You have to have balance in all things. It is OK to have one beer, or to drink a glass of wine. But if you are doing it too much, it will interfere with other things going on in your life.  Jesus set the example of moderation in his sermons when he said “in all things, do things with moderation”. 1Corinthians 9:25

A good example of this is, a person that I knew, who only played video games and watched YouTube videos all day. They had such an interest in that, when it was time to look for employment or take care of other responsibilities, they only put a short period of time into those responsible activities, so that they would have more time for their pleasure and entertainment. A good man of spiritual quality will put 100% into all that he does, in the important things that he needs to get done for the sake of those around him. It is foolish to think that your actions do not have an effect on those around you.

When someone is practicing chastity, this includes mentally too. Thinking about someone sexually, makes an energetic link to that person. And that is why a virtuous man will only have eyes and thoughts for his own wife or girlfriend. He will not look at other women in such a way as to create that reality within his mind. It’s a shame that things like masturbation and pornography have taken over a lot of the lives of our men in this day and age. They do not realize that those things can hurt the self-esteem that a woman in their life is trying to maintain all about themselves. The ascended Master Jesus had once said, “if you even look at a woman in that manner, you are guilty of the deed” Matthew 5:28.

Why? Well because, it takes up all of the elements in order to create your reality or manifest something. When you are thinking or desiring, you are using your feelings and your thoughts, which ends up leading to a spiritual energy being created and projected. And that it’s self, makes up more than half of your soul. You’re soul consists of your mind, spirit, emotions, and the physical body. If you are creating the spiritual energy through your thoughts and feelings with a thought like that, then the only thing left was to actually act it out in the physical world. And we all know that 3-D is the illusion, and it is the mind, heart, and spirit, that are the reality. So as you can see, your thoughts, your feelings, and conduct have to be pure. Faithfulness, loyalty, that is what makes a virtuous man. Mind, heart, body, and soul. this also includes men who are attracted to a woman that they have interest in as a single man. Obviously, they do not want to have sexual attraction or thoughts about anyone in that woman’s life, in addition to their attraction to her. Some men, have liked a woman and before pursuing her, also checked out attractive friends or female relatives that they have. This is not showing true love, or loyalty, as the energetic link of those attractions will always exist in the relationship.

When a man develops interest in a woman for settling down, then it should be only for her. no other attachemnts or cords should exist. This is why relationships are hard for me. Because as an oracle, I know of every person that a partner has desired, had attraction to, and even had relations with. It should not matter if it was before me, but knowing those things, it hurts.  Imagine, a normal woman would not know those things at all…but in the afterlife she will, in her her life review. It’s all in the akasha, and with that, this is why it was said to only have sex when married. For me, it’s worse. I see it now.

When you are loyal, it does not just consist of being faithful to your wife. It also consists of being a faithful and loyal man to your family. A lot of fathers these days, do not interact or engage with their children. Many fathers work a lot, and as a result when they get home they just want to take a load off and relax. That’s the case with most parents mother or father. You have to make time for your children. Even if you do not take interest in what their interests are, you still have to sit back and listen. Sometimes you may wonder about what your children pick as interests or activities. This world is very different from when we were younger. But you cannot just continue doing something else on the side, while your child is trying to share something with you. Even if you’re extremely busy, you have to stop, look at them, and give them your direct attention. Otherwise, they will drift away. We all know what happens to children who drift way. They end up having idle time, and idol thoughts. And that is how a destructive path is formed for them later. The Spiritual man is faithful and loyal as a father and even mother for that matter, would make sure that their child has all the Time, affection and attention… that they need to strive. Spend time with your family, do things everyone likes together. Make it a point to ensure that everyone is happy and fulfilled.

A good spiritual man is someone who loves God above all things. It says in the Scriptures, that it is God first, and then family. A good and righteous man, will always remember to be honest, strong and persevering. They would exercise the true definition of love as it is explained at 1 Corinthians 13:4- “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres”. A good spiritual man will follow that, in everything that he does. He would be willing to go to all ends for his friends, and family. And even for a stranger who needed a hand too.

Usually, the good spiritual man will seek knowledge, not only in spiritual things… but also in all of the areas of life that they will need to be fully equipped with. And that is because, there is a great need for them to be responsible and dependable as well. That means that they will learn everything that is needed, when it comes to taking care of a property and house, children, their wife (in all always), and even expanding their knowledge in whatever career that they have chosen. A good spiritual man seeking knowledge, strives to be knowledgeable in all fields. This way he can be good at everything that he does. That way God, his coworkers, his family and friends, can always rely on him to pull through.  Like God does for all of us, in all that he does. God knows about everything. Also, a man like this, always is considerate to how others feel. He will take time to carefully contemplate his responses or how he comes off to others. His communication will be loving, open, and sensitive to those whom he is speaking with.

A good spiritual man will always set a good example in his behavior and speech as well. That means, he will always dress appropriately for his age, and to represent who he is as a man of deep spiritual quality. He does not dress in such a way as to provoke attention, but to look cleanly. He will also speak respectfully, as he will know that not only does he have a need to show respect and consideration for others, but also to set a good example for any children that may be around him. He will also always offer good advice to those that need it. He will keep his household in good order, and always do a good job in all that he does. Most people nowadays are so unhappy that they rushed through the things that they do, so much so…that they are not done properly. A good spiritual man will always take his time and he ensure that things are done right. This is alot for anyone to have to take on. But it is true. While many have no faith in the bible or God anymore, this and the bible even in many aspects, can be a wonderful guide to life. That is because if you follow it, you will transcend the ego, and become great in all ways within yourself, which is a hope of higher self, ands what you are here to learn how to do anyhow.  It is every human’s goal in this journey on earth, to become the better quality of themself, for the development of their soul.

With this article, I hope that it inspires you if you are a guy reading it, always tried to be the best that you can and everything that you think, say, and do. As well as, and the way that you present yourself, take care of your home and family, and the work that you do at your job. Always be the prime example of what a strong, masculine man is. For men is the embodiment of God here, and since God is masculine, that means that they are fair, just, strong, authoritative, structured and disciplined, generous, reliable, dependable, compassionate and considerate, as well as all of the things listed above. In all things, represent God through your image, as man is the image of God on earth.