I have been struggling with something for quite a long while. However, I did not think to mention it for popular opinion, until I had seen one of my gorgeous friends speaking about it on her Instagram page. She is really beautiful, so it only makes sense that it was happening to her too. What am I talking about? Attraction, in this industry. And not that kind of attraction as in the “law of attraction and manifestation”. This is in regards to advances sexually and romantically.
So while my friend “E” (didn’t know if I could mention her here) is extremely pretty, girls like her and myself are trying to succeed and do something great with our lives. For single women it’s fine if they end up meeting somebody through their work. However, they should keep it strictly Professional. I have usually never stepped outside of my professional guidelines except when I had met a soulmate of mine back in 2017. It happens. You meet someone, and you connect with who you connect with. But there are male individuals out there that send the untimely penis picture, and some who don’t even regard your profession, treating you like some kind of spiritual “call girl”. I know that when a person is provided with love and nurturing, time and attention, as well as a personal friendship, it can grow and lead into many things. I have had clients that found me attractive, and I am not shy to say that some of them were very nice looking and great company. But there are boundaries in this particular line of work. I always made it a rule to not date your clients unless it had some spiritual divine exception. Other girls may do as they please. I do not object to whatever they choose to do with their life.
But how many girls are using the spiritual platform to promote themselves for this type of attention underneath of the surface? And how much is that misleading others, to think that we are all that way? Like I said, there’s nothing wrong with meeting someone. And for beautiful women there’s nothing wrong with a little attention as well. But I still think they should be kept respectful.
If you are interested in your spiritual guru, don’t send them a picture of “Bird Big” or “Mr. Snuffleupagus” please. I don’t know why men think that ladies like that anyway. Women aren’t going to be turned on by a picture of it. Women like to be seduced, treated like a queen. Especially, spiritual women. We have a gift and a power that we should be respected for. If you have underlying feelings or an attraction for your spiritual leader, then you should sit down and talk to them about it to find out how they feel in return, and how to balance the situation. But remember, respect is always 100% needed.
This all brings me to my next topic of concern. Some of those spiritual leaders may have a significant other already. Obviously, many of us are going to have to talk to people of both genders. That includes life coaching with males and females at times. How do you feel about a female spiritual teacher spending time on the phone with a male client? Do you feel that this should be allowed as long as it is kept on a professional level? Or should that client be excluded from gaining help simply because or their gender or because they may have some kind of underlying attraction to their teacher?
In my professional opinion, anyone should be allowed to seek help. Regardless of the gender of the teacher or student. If there is an attraction to one or the other, it should not be a factor used to discriminate. What matters is that there is honesty and everyone go about things in a respectful way. Well hey, if that spiritual teacher is a swinger, that’s their choice. I personally don’t engage in interactions like that. And if two people find love through their work, kudos for them too. Either males or females shouldn’t give negative attention. Just as much, people looking for fun have to understand that this is not the porn industry. Spouses have to understand that it’s co-ed and seekers need to know the laws of sexual harassment.🙏🏻😊😉